Monthly Archives: July 2017

The Finalizing of the Divorce Agreement

Our divorce was finally signed after a last minute frenzy to compromise.  It’s funny how one small topic in a divorce agreement can wreak such havoc and cause so much chaos.  A divorce agreement is the cornerstone of the rules … Continue reading

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Why I Forgave Him

I was watching The Vow which was a movie on tv the other night.  As the daughter yells at her mom for staying with her father after he cheated, the mom simply said, I chose to stay with him for … Continue reading

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How To Find Peace With The Love You Feel For Your EX

To quote Frank Sinatra, I did it my way and friends, you will too.  But to navigate those muddy waters of love after a separation, a divorce or a betrayal is hard to do alone.  I’m here.  I get it … Continue reading

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But I Still Love Him

Recently I’ve met with some women who are in the middle of being separated and/or divorced and a handful still lament that they love their STBX (soon-to-be-ex) or EX’s.  I understand, for I still have a piece of my heart … Continue reading

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Meeting in the Middle For A Divorce Agreement

There’s a definite give and take when you’re dealing with a divorce agreement.  There are no two ways around it.  We have to compromise and I’ve heard it said that the best divorce agreements are when neither party is happy … Continue reading

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My Two Cents On Divorce Court Etiquette

My STBX (soon-to-be-ex) and I had to be in court recently to review our divorce agreement to which we weren’t agreeing.  He had sent me one to which I scoffed at and now it was his turn.  Before meeting with … Continue reading

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You Can’t Co-Parent From The Nothing Box

I call it the nothing box.  That’s where my Ex lives most of the time since we’ve been separated and now divorced.  Have you ever heard of the nothing box? Well, I call it the nothing box because he simply … Continue reading

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