Monthly Archives: January 2018

Filling The Empty Cavity When He Leaves

Today’s prompt cavity  made me ache to write to you.  Because as ex-spouses or ex-partners, there’s a hole in our hearts after our loved one leaves.  It aches like a cavity and the pain that we feel within takes effort … Continue reading

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Nowhere Man

This song reminds me of my Ex and what I’d like to say to him someday, but I refrain.  It doesn’t matter anyway because he’s disconnected and doesn’t talk to anyone really.  But it’s interesting how the Beatles’ song came … Continue reading

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Stay Out Of Their Relationship

It’s been an interesting week here, but the experience may be helpful to you if you are divorced with kids who see their dad occasionally.  As a divorced parent, I thought that we would co-parent together, but that was not … Continue reading

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Blinded By The Lies

Tuning into narcissistic behaviors, once your eyes have been opened is a hard truth to handle.  Because for the most part, we want to believe people are telling the truth, especially if it’s our loved one.  Why would we question … Continue reading

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When Divorce is Hard, Concentrate on Gratitude

I know, you’re probably thinking I have no business in preaching that you should be finding something to be grateful for when things are so chaotic in your life.  I remember thinking the very same way when someone said that … Continue reading

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Happy Anniversary to Us!

I got a notice from wordpress that today is my one year anniversary here blogging and I wanted to take this opportunity to thank you all for being here with me.  With a few more than 200 followers, my little … Continue reading

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Does It Matter Now If He Cheated?

Even though I haven’t communicated with the ex in a long while, I had a dream about him.  In the dream, he told the truth and answered many questions about our marriage that were apparently still haunting me enough to … Continue reading

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