Ex-wife of a narcissist. Primary full custody of kids. Ex husband ignores everyone and everything. Rules do not apply to him. And yet, he still thinks that what he demands is to be obeyed by me. Um…No.
You can’t bully me anymore.
Suddenly he wants information from me. He even called me, but didn’t leave a message. He probably doesn’t want his voice on tape. Sorry, I only respond to messages. I don’t respond to missed calls. Sometimes people need a dose of their own medicine, although I do know that this is un-chartered territory for me and he will somehow in his head make me pay for my insolence in not answering him.
I do get that hiccup of dread when I think about it. Yes, I still do because I’m not fully healed from him I guess. I can be triggered emotionally, but I’ve learned to reach out to a trusted friend who understands before taking any action.
It’s a process, but I’m standing up for myself. Yay Janie!