Here, let me get your blood pumping today and ask you,
Have you ever fallen into bed with a stranger?
Would you ever think about falling into bed with a stranger?
Because I’ll be upfront and tell you I never have, but I wonder what it would be like. Being married for most of my life (and now divorced), I haven’t had a lot of opportunity to meet someone who zinged me and I think that would be a requirement for sure.
Zinged – you know, made me even think of sleeping with him because of the connection I felt to him.
Zinged – the almost immediate gravitational pull to want to know how soft or hard his kisses would be or how it would feel to be held by him.
Zinged – the wondering of what’s underneath his clothing…you get it right?
I’ve been reading some other bloggers who talk about their dating experiences and while mine have been G-rated, theirs have bordered on PG – M (for Mature audiences) and have amused me because sometimes they do fall into bed with a stranger (or near stranger). Now I’m not judging at all. I’m just wondering how that works because I’ve never felt that way before so it’s never been an option.
And maybe I should add that I’m a Hallmark girl. I believe in the fairy tale, stars aligned, courting, flirtation and romance of it all, but I’m finding that when I take off my rose-colored glasses, things are looking quite different at this age. It’s not the same anymore as it was back when I was single decades ago.
My most proper upbringing would have never strayed into this unknown territory, but then again, who knew I’d be here now? I’m sure you may think that I’m old fashioned in dating etiquette, but I am who I am. Authentically Janie and an over 50 year old divorcée! And I’m owning this new chapter in 2020!
So, again, I ask you…have you thought about it?
Would you do it?
Did you or someone you know do it?
And yes, I’m asking…how did it go?
Ok, I’m borrowing my blogging friend LA’s line….