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When The Narcissist Says Don’t Cheat
The ex began to tell me, “If you’re going to cheat, leave before you cheat, as it’s disrespectful.” In my mind this came out of nowhere as I would never cheat. I couldn’t understand his sudden obsession with saying this … Continue reading
Posted in divorce
Tagged cheating husband, ex-wife of a narcissist, gaslighting, loophole, narcissist
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When All Signs Point To Cheating
I have no doubt the ex cheated on me. There I said it. Or wrote it. There it is – in black and white. And I feel non-plussed by it. There’s no emotion behind it. Except that he’s a lying … Continue reading
Posted in divorce
Tagged cheating husband, ex-wife of a narcissist, gaslighting, gay husband, signs of a liar, viagra, wedding rings, word salad
18 Comments
Mark My Words
Oh geez, I guess I’ve not heard it all. The ex told the kid that he got a concealed carry. Well, he has to take a class, but he’s got it. WHAT??? Does nobody but me think this is odd? … Continue reading
Posted in divorce
Tagged ak47, concealed carry, ex-wife of a narcissist, gun, other life
21 Comments
Part Deux As Promised
My kid walked away for a few minutes and I settled down after I got my heart and mouth under control after our last conversation. Allowed…that word just did it for me as it did for many of you who … Continue reading
What Would You Do?
I always find it troubling and startling how some people treat others, especially single women. I’m not trying to be bratty here or a feminist (God forbid I invoke that word), but seriously, lately it’s more rampant than normal. For … Continue reading
Posted in #womenofacertainage, women 50
Tagged business deal, difference between men and women, feminist, liars, vintage car, word salad
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I’m Fine
It’s the kiss of death to hear someone say” I’m Fine.” At least for me because depending on how those two words are said, well, let’s just say there’s a world of difference! Of course we’ve all probably seen those … Continue reading
Posted in women's health
Tagged communication, death, family, friends, mental health, National Suicide Prevention Day, relationships, suicide
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Something for Me – Beauty Edition
Awhile back, I wrote about microblading my eyebrows. While it hurt to have it done, I am glad I did it, especially now when bushier brows are in. Luckily, it only lasts about 2 years which is fine with me … Continue reading
Posted in #womenofacertainage
Tagged botox, dentist, eye lash lift, eye lash tint, fake eyelashes, lipstick, microblade eyebrows
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Starting Over
I’ve started over many times. Heck everyday is a new start, isn’t it? So what’s different about how I’m feeling today? Well, I’m decluttering the house. There’s nobody home so it’s just me and I’m on my own schedule. Eating … Continue reading
Posted in divorce, finding happiness at 50, heart
Tagged ice cream for breakfast, insomnia, kids and divorce, me time, relationships
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