Category Archives: divorce

Getting Ready To Think About Love Signs?

I’m laughing this morning because I got a friend request from some guy whom I don’t know.  He’s extremely handsome, but of course I think he’s a fake so I won’t respond.  But it made me smile in that way…you … Continue reading

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Independence Day

Don’t let the title fool you.  Although I’m happy that it’s the 4th of July, I want to talk about your Independence Day.  Your personal Independence Day.  The day you finally realized that THIS IS YOUR LIFE TO LIVE HOW … Continue reading

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TGIF

TGIF!  Thank God It’s Friday!  It’s been a long week here and the weekend will be interesting so I’m taking it easy today and just trying to sort through paperwork, wrapping up odds and ends.  Because the ex is back … Continue reading

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When The Narcissist Comes Back To Town

it’s been a rough weekend so far.  The ex has come back to town and it’s always messy when he does.  As the ex-wife of a narcissist, I am staying out of the situation, but watching it unravel is exhausting. … Continue reading

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Divorced? Is This Happening To You Too?

Recently I’ve been talking with a few divorced girlfriends who are having a hard time.  A hard time meaning that they’re being triggered by memories of their relationships with their exes, when it was good and when it was bad. … Continue reading

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Triggered

My kids heard from their dad and grandparents yesterday.  I wasn’t aware that they were talking to them until I overheard their voices.  And while I’m not usually an angry person, it triggered something in me that I hadn’t felt … Continue reading

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Untold Stories of Isolation – Courtship

A friend texted me this yesterday: You know who’s really gonna suffer during this social distancing? Dudes on dating apps. Welcome back to courtship. Welcome back to talking to a gal for WEEKS prior to meeting. We’re pen pals now.  … Continue reading

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General Parenting Single Style

I grew up with a strict tyrannical father.  “My way or the highway,” was his motto and we felt we had no other choice, but to abide by his rules.  I didn’t want my kids to have that same militant … Continue reading

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How Are You and Your Kids Doing With The Quarantine?

Have you ever wondered what your kids will say about their experience through this quarantine?  What will be their story?  How will you as a parent fit into it?  Do you ever think about it? Because at some point, life … Continue reading

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