Category Archives: women 50

Make Yourself Happy

“If Mama ain’t happy, ain’t nobody happy.” You’ve heard that line before, haven’t you?  There’s truth in it even though I’ve only heard other people say it with a bit of sarcasm. Your job is to make you happy.  Your … Continue reading

Posted in divorce, finding happiness at 50, love, women 50 | Tagged , , , | 14 Comments

I’m Now Seeing A Younger Man Once A Week…

Did I get your attention?  I’m laughing because for those of you who know me, you’re wondering what I’m up to and for those that maybe don’t know me, you’re thinking – cougar?  LOL  Cougar…in my dreams…more laughter…hmmm….nah…. But no.  … Continue reading

Posted in addiction, finding happiness at 50, women 50 | Tagged , , , , , , , , | 14 Comments

I Joined A Gym

I know what you’re thinking.  After the whole CrossFit failure, you’re probably wondering why I joined a gym.  Well, I am too because I hate to work out.  Sweating to the oldies felt more fun so how the heck I … Continue reading

Posted in finding happiness at 50, women 50 | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , | 8 Comments

Finding The Tool Kit Of Independence

My toilet needed help as it wasn’t working properly.  The chain that connects the stopper to the metal arm had broken.  It broke awhile ago and I rigged it with a safety pin which worked great for awhile until it … Continue reading

Posted in divorce, women 50 | Tagged , , , , | 12 Comments

Stop Suffering

The root of suffering is attachment. – The Buddha I saw this quote today and felt like kicking myself.  Not literally kicking myself mind you, but figuratively because I’m tired of suffering.  I was attached, attached to the past for … Continue reading

Posted in addiction, divorce, finding happiness at 50, inspiration, love, women 50 | Tagged , , , , , , , | 4 Comments

Change Your Attitude and Embrace 50!

Few people agree with me that turning 50 was a great milestone.  A lot of my friends are bemoaning middle age, but not me.  I changed the way I looked at my life.  I chose to look at turning 50 … Continue reading

Posted in 50 years old, divorce, finding happiness at 50, inspiration, love, women 50 | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , | 15 Comments

Tips To Make Conversation Easier With A Narcissistic Ex

If you’re still tied to your former spouse who’s a narcissist, you know how hard it is to have a conversation with them.  Because even if we can clearly see that they’re narcissistic, there’s still that piece that remembers the … Continue reading

Posted in divorce, finding happiness at 50, inspiration, love, women 50 | Tagged , , , , , , , | 12 Comments