Tag Archives: changes

When You Let Out That Kernel Of Truth – Kids And Divorce

Posted on November 1, 2018 by janieleeds

My homesick college kid woke me this morning just before 6am. The phone rang and all I heard was crying on the other end with the words, “Mom, it’s me.” I sat up in bed, not fully awake, but aware … Continue reading →

Posted in divorce, love | Tagged anxiety, changes, depression, family, forgiveness, grief, hate vs love, homesick college kid help, kids and divorce, relationships, single mom parenting | 33 Comments

A Touch Of Leather

Posted on October 28, 2018 by janieleeds

So Friday night I went out to dinner with a long lost cousin of mine. We reconnected recently which has been nice. She’s a few years younger than I am, married with kids, but we share a bonding belief in … Continue reading →

Posted in finding happiness at 50 | Tagged changes, dressing for myself, fashion, fun, Loft faux leather leggings, looking good, preppy, styling at 50 | 17 Comments

I’m Now Seeing A Younger Man Once A Week…

Posted on October 4, 2018 by janieleeds

Did I get your attention? I’m laughing because for those of you who know me, you’re wondering what I’m up to and for those that maybe don’t know me, you’re thinking – cougar? LOL Cougar…in my dreams…more laughter…hmmm….nah…. But no. … Continue reading →

Posted in addiction, finding happiness at 50, women 50 | Tagged advice, changes, cougar, dating after divorce, gym, hate to exercise, increase self-esteem, personal trainer, quit smoking | 15 Comments

Empty Nester Saturday

Posted on September 29, 2018 by janieleeds

I woke up this morning when a friend called at 9am. I couldn’t believe the time! When was the last time I slept this late? I didn’t want her to know, so I cleared my throat and cheerily answered. I … Continue reading →

Posted in divorce, finding happiness at 50 | Tagged changes, empty nester, fall weather, home alone, loneliness, single mom | 34 Comments

What’s Not To Love About Fall?

Posted on September 25, 2018 by janieleeds

I love Fall. I love all of the seasons, but there’s something about Fall that ignites me. Maybe it’s the new beginnings in being an empty nester. Or maybe it’s the joy in the leaves turning those bejeweled deep colors. … Continue reading →

Posted in divorce, finding happiness at 50, inspiration, love | Tagged autumn, caramel apples, changes, empty nester, fun, menopause, seasonal changes, smores | 22 Comments

When Your Kid Wants To Come Home From College

Posted on September 19, 2018 by janieleeds

My kid went to University in August and started falling apart. How the hell it happened in the blink of an eye is beyond me considering I think I have a good grasp on my kids normally. But this turn of … Continue reading →

Posted in divorce, finding happiness at 50, love, Uncategorized | Tagged advice, changes, counseling, ex-husband, health, helping your kid to succeed, home, homesick at college, homesick freshman, relationships, single mom, University transfer student | 14 Comments

Single Parenting College Bound Kids

Posted on August 28, 2018 by janieleeds

We’re coming down to the last few days before the kids go to college. I have been decidedly absent from nagging. I have written a list of what needs to be packed. I have gently reminded them of last minute … Continue reading →

Posted in divorce, finding happiness at 50, love | Tagged advice, changes, empty nest, family, home, packing for college, relationships, single mom parenting, stop nagging | 6 Comments

Change Your Attitude and Embrace 50!

Posted on August 8, 2018 by janieleeds

Few people agree with me that turning 50 was a great milestone. A lot of my friends are bemoaning middle age, but not me. I changed the way I looked at my life. I chose to look at turning 50 … Continue reading →

Posted in 50 years old, divorce, finding happiness at 50, inspiration, love, women 50 | Tagged #fiftyandforward, acceptance, beliefs, changes, embrace where you are, fifty and forward, freedom to be me, gratitude, love, please yourself, truth | 15 Comments

Where Do I Go From Here With The Narcissist?

Posted on August 2, 2018 by janieleeds

Once you’ve identified the narcissist in your life, almost all that you thought you knew and would have bet your life on knowing for sure goes out the window. And if that’s not enough of a bitter pill to swallow, … Continue reading →

Posted in divorce, finding happiness at 50, inspiration, love | Tagged advice, changes, ex-wife of a narcissist, family, family of narcissists, forgiveness, healing after divorce, healthy relationships, let go of the past, NPD, present, relationships | 6 Comments