Tag Archives: choices

Disentangling Myself From The Story

Posted on August 26, 2018 by janieleeds

I hung onto the story (which was true) in my head that stated:  he left me.  In all honesty, looking back, I can see how I clung tightly to the victim-hood status of being the one left.  I spent enormous … Continue reading →

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What Time Can Do…

Posted on July 21, 2018 by janieleeds

I’ve found that time either softens people or hardens them.  Have you found that too?  When we’ve been dealt hard experiences, I think there’s a choice to be made – let the experiences harden us or find forgiveness and move … Continue reading →

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Standing At A Crossroads

Posted on June 3, 2018 by janieleeds

I found this on pinterest and it reminded me of how much I love the movie, Under The Tuscan Sun.  I wrote about the movie here as well. But this moment in the movie was pivotal for me.  I didn’t … Continue reading →

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Radiate Love

Posted on May 28, 2017 by janieleeds

Radiate Love It sounds like a simple request – radiate love – but sometimes we find it hard when our lives are seemingly filled with chaos, frustration and grief for the circumstances we find ourselves in at the time. I … Continue reading →

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