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You’re Not The Girl I Thought You Were

I was watching Legally Blonde recently and one quote jumped out at me. If you’re going to let one stupid prick ruin your life…you’re not the girl I thought you were. – Professor Stromwell And with that simple, timely exchange, … Continue reading

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Another Hard Part Of Divorce

A good friend of mine and I were talking today about how I have anxiety over seeing my former husband and his family soon at one of the kid’s end of the school year functions.  I haven’t seen him in … Continue reading

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Back To Myself

Friends have been telling me lately that it’s good to see me back to myself.  It’s strange honestly because I don’t think I’ve changed.  Ok, well, maybe I’m a little more outgoing than I was before when I holed up … Continue reading

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A Lesson From Rocky

How many times have you heard someone talking about their dissatisfaction with their own life and blaming it on the circumstances in their past?  I think that’s one of the biggest universal problems that we all have experienced.  I know … Continue reading

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Focus On The Journey, Not The Destination

I know for me, I get wrapped up the cyclical question of  Where Am I Going?  with frequency these days.  I have to literally hop out of my train of thinking before I make myself weepy with the way my … Continue reading

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Divorce Exposed

There’s a willingness in the face of divorce to recount all the bad in the past in order to make sense of the present situation whatever it may be.  There’s a flip side to that exposure which comes from being … Continue reading

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What’s Your Motto?

I was watching The White Princess series and I was inspired.  In the series, at one point (spoiler alert, it’s the first episode), the mother-in-law to the Queen of England, tells her daughter-in-law Elizabeth that she has chosen the motto … Continue reading

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Now Is The Time For Rebirth

Well, it’s early Easter morning and all are asleep in my home.  I’ve already been outside to feel the warm sunshine on my body and to take a quiet walk around the yard.  Looking at the buds pushing through the … Continue reading

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