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You’re Not The Girl I Thought You Were

I was watching Legally Blonde recently and one quote jumped out at me. If you’re going to let one stupid prick ruin your life…you’re not the girl I thought you were. – Professor Stromwell And with that simple, timely exchange, … Continue reading

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Another Hard Part Of Divorce

A good friend of mine and I were talking today about how I have anxiety over seeing my former husband and his family soon at one of the kid’s end of the school year functions.  I haven’t seen him in … Continue reading

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Back To Myself

Friends have been telling me lately that it’s good to see me back to myself.  It’s strange honestly because I don’t think I’ve changed.  Ok, well, maybe I’m a little more outgoing than I was before when I holed up … Continue reading

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A Lesson From Rocky

How many times have you heard someone talking about their dissatisfaction with their own life and blaming it on the circumstances in their past?  I think that’s one of the biggest universal problems that we all have experienced.  I know … Continue reading

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Focus On The Journey, Not The Destination

I know for me, I get wrapped up the cyclical question of  Where Am I Going?  with frequency these days.  I have to literally hop out of my train of thinking before I make myself weepy with the way my … Continue reading

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Divorce Exposed

There’s a willingness in the face of divorce to recount all the bad in the past in order to make sense of the present situation whatever it may be.  There’s a flip side to that exposure which comes from being … Continue reading

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What’s Your Motto?

I was watching The White Princess series and I was inspired.  In the series, at one point (spoiler alert, it’s the first episode), the mother-in-law to the Queen of England, tells her daughter-in-law Elizabeth that she has chosen the motto … Continue reading

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