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Dropping The Weight

I saw a friend who I haven’t seen in 3 years.  When we last saw each other, my marriage was beginning to unravel.  Since she was divorced, it was easy to talk with her and to hear advice from someone … Continue reading

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Risky

I’ve learned that it’s risky, to show myself to the world.  Risky to wear my heart on my sleeve and to be vulnerable.  But that’s how I’m made innately.  I know that it’s risky to show your cards and wait … Continue reading

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Lies Are Sticky

I think some of us have EX’s who believe their own lies.  How do you handle it when the kids come home with Daddy said blah blah blah and you know damn well that none of it is true?  Or … Continue reading

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Hi-Ho The Cheese Stands Alone

I have to share this dream I awoke to this morning as the last line was the first thing I had in my head when I got up:  The cheese stands alone. What do you think of when you hear … Continue reading

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I Don’t Want To Do This Anymore

When my EX-husband told me it was over, his words were, I don’t want to do this anymore.  Fragile me, took that as I wasn’t enough for him.  I relived that quote over and over as failure.  I wasn’t enough.  … Continue reading

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Sparkles and Praying

How do you commemorate the first wedding anniversary after your divorce is final?  Well, you receive a text from a friend saying that every time she hears this song, she thinks of you!  When I first heard it, my eyes … Continue reading

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Finding Parts of Myself

It’s a road of discovery, strewn with some rocks, some detours and some debris.  But it’s my path that I’m on and I’m determined to find all the parts of myself to make me whole again.  Being forced to change … Continue reading

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