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Happy Father’s Day

Happy Father’s Day to all the Dads out there! I hope you have a lovely day with your family and bond with your kids! Make this day one where your kids know how much you care and allow them to … Continue reading

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Fear

Last night the fear had me in its talons. Locked in a cage, cemented by the endless horrific lists of ‘what if’s’ that stealthily swirled in my brain. So much uncertainty lately with outside forces that make life harder than … Continue reading

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Liar Liar Pants On Fire

The ex is back to lying again and this time, there’s something smelly going on. It’s not a rarity for him to lie, nor for me to catch him in his lies. That’s something I’ve been doing for years now … Continue reading

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Wisdom From Coco

“I don’t care what you think about me. I don’t think about you at all.”  Coco Chanel It took me a long time to get to this point with the ex. If you’ve been with me for awhile, my blog … Continue reading

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“Poor Daddy”

I’m venting. Sorry, but here’s part of the whole sob story from my son about his dad (the ex) from his dad’s visit a few weekends ago. Yup, it finally came out. “Mom, I think he’s changed.” “Really? What makes … Continue reading

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No Response Is a Response

Here’s another one of those drafts I never published. Maybe it will help you on your journey. No response is a response…and it’s a powerful one. It’s common for the ex to not answer me.  In fact, I rarely communicate … Continue reading

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Praying For Peace

The ex (my kids’ dad) is coming in this weekend to visit with them. He does this very occasionally so it’s a big deal when he blows into town. He told them to clear their schedules because he’s going to … Continue reading

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A Momentary Seesaw

I got an unusual call yesterday from a man who was investigating the ex. While I daren’t go into more detail, I will say that it amused me greatly. Because funny enough, the ex had to put me down as … Continue reading

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Door Nailed Shut

I only ever wanted to have closure. I had hoped that when we divorced, we could stay kind, but that was not meant to be. We couldn’t even co-parent. Not to mention, the ex’s narcissistic mother was inserting herself into … Continue reading

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