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Goodnight 2018

Posted on January 1, 2019 by janieleeds

Well, it’s been a bumpy ride this year and when I put my head on the pillow tonight, I’ll be happily saying goodnight to 2018.  What I know is that I did my best through the hard lessons and even … Continue reading →

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Life Is Short

Posted on December 24, 2018 by janieleeds

I haven’t been online in a few days.  It’s been a whirlwind of emotion so forgive me if I’m not writing coherently, but I need to share in a safe place.  My former husband is currently in the hospital in … Continue reading →

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It’s Not Our Anniversary Anymore

Posted on August 30, 2018 by janieleeds

The other day I realized it would have been our wedding anniversary.  Well, I guess I should call it my unniversary since I am divorced over a year now.  I wonder if my former husband even realized the date.  I … Continue reading →

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It’s Not About You With A Narcissist

Posted on July 11, 2018 by janieleeds

I wasted years – Y E A R S – not getting over the fact that my former husband left me.  I desperately went over our past trying to figure out when it all went wrong.  I shouldered the blame … Continue reading →

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Letting Go of Fixing It All

Posted on July 2, 2018 by janieleeds

I admit.  I’m done.  The towel’s not thrown totally in, but I’m tired and fed up.  Single mom to two kids with a narcissistic former husband who manipulates and walks away from what he’s required to do by law is … Continue reading →

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Do You Believe In One and Done?

Posted on June 21, 2018 by janieleeds

I used to think that my marriage was for life – in other words, one and done.  But if you’ve been reading here, you know I’m divorced so my one and done wasn’t meant to be.  Now I’ve got to … Continue reading →

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An Amazing Success!

Posted on June 18, 2018 by janieleeds

Awhile back, I wrote about Another Hard Part of Divorce and how I was anxious to see my former husband whom I hadn’t seen in a year and his family at a school function for our kids.  I went on … Continue reading →

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Drop The Mic

Posted on June 1, 2018 by janieleeds

So what’s my plan before the school festivities begin and I have to be in the same place as my former husband and his family for my kid’s celebration?  What was your plan when it happened to you?  I would … Continue reading →

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Another Hard Part Of Divorce

Posted on May 31, 2018 by janieleeds

A good friend of mine and I were talking today about how I have anxiety over seeing my former husband and his family soon at one of the kid’s end of the school year functions.  I haven’t seen him in … Continue reading →

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