Tag Archives: healing after divorce

My Block

Posted on April 4, 2021 by janieleeds

Being blocked in life, as in being stuck in a certain situation or mindset is hard. We can swirl in that stagnation for days, months or years. It’s not where we want to be for sure, but we don’t know … Continue reading →

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The Contract Was Completed

Posted on February 22, 2021 by janieleeds

I’ve been getting more spiritual lately and one of the other reasons I’ve found that happens in a divorce situation is this: The contract was completed and it was time to move on. I believe that the people we encounter … Continue reading →

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A Momentary Seesaw

Posted on February 20, 2021 by janieleeds

I got an unusual call yesterday from a man who was investigating the ex. While I daren’t go into more detail, I will say that it amused me greatly. Because funny enough, the ex had to put me down as … Continue reading →

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R-E-S-P-E-C-T

Posted on October 3, 2020 by janieleeds

My one son reminds me of his dad (the ex) lately. It is as if the wound that I thought I had healed is splitting wide open with the stabbing accuracy of his tone of voice and the utter feeling … Continue reading →

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Letting Go Of Marital Lifestyle Story

Posted on September 20, 2020 by janieleeds

I had an interesting conversation with two of my friends who are divorced. What I love about these two women are that they are brutally honest with caring hearts. They are supportive even when they may be delivering information that … Continue reading →

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Divorced? Is This Happening To You Too?

Posted on June 5, 2020 by janieleeds

Recently I’ve been talking with a few divorced girlfriends who are having a hard time.  A hard time meaning that they’re being triggered by memories of their relationships with their exes, when it was good and when it was bad. … Continue reading →

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Triggered

Posted on June 4, 2020 by janieleeds

My kids heard from their dad and grandparents yesterday.  I wasn’t aware that they were talking to them until I overheard their voices.  And while I’m not usually an angry person, it triggered something in me that I hadn’t felt … Continue reading →

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See Yourself

Posted on March 29, 2020 by janieleeds

The time you spend trying to be good enough in someone else’s eyes:  you don’t get that back, and no one else can measure your worth other than you.  So stop wasting time trying to prove yourself to anyone who … Continue reading →

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Would You Take Your Ex Back?

Posted on December 12, 2019 by janieleeds

If he wanted to come back, would you take your Ex back? It’s a loaded question for sure.  I think it depends on you, on him and on the unique circumstances that surround your break up.  But I see so … Continue reading →

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