Tag Archives: how to deal with narcissist

Get Real With A Narcissist

Posted on April 22, 2020 by janieleeds

It’s coming. The light that exposes the truth. But it’s a slow process and while I’ve been infinitely patient, my temperament hasn’t been cooperating. I’m a bit short-tempered on the inside, but outside, I’m still able to hold it together … Continue reading →

Posted in divorce | Tagged blame game, court date after divorce, ex-wife of a narcissist, how to deal with narcissist, people lie and facts are truth, research | 4 Comments

Happy For The Christmas Miracle

Posted on December 27, 2019 by janieleeds

It was a rough Christmas here with lots of feelings flying around between the kids and me because of the push/pull from ex’s family about Christmas Day (which is my time with the kids) but they always guilt the kids … Continue reading →

Posted in divorce, finding happiness at 50 | Tagged gratitude for divorce, holidays after divorce, how to deal with narcissist, kids come first, love heals, relationship between divorced parents and kids | 4 Comments

Get Off The Merry-Go-Round

Posted on July 29, 2019 by janieleeds

I allowed myself to stay on the merry-go-round in my head for too long. I knew it. I couldn’t help myself because I kept thinking that this go round would be different. What’s that quote about insanity? Doing the same … Continue reading →

Posted in divorce | Tagged co-parenting, ex-wife of a narcissist, healing after divorce, how to deal with narcissist, single mom parenting, take good care of yourself | 4 Comments

Narcissists Spin The Story

Posted on April 29, 2019 by janieleeds

To keep you on your toes, narcissists spin the story of whatever they’re telling you. Listen closely, because depending upon whom they’re talking with, the story may change. Outright lies, embellishments of the truth and even small nuances are part … Continue reading →

Posted in divorce, finding happiness at 50 | Tagged empath, ex-wife of a narcissist, face the facts, help to heal, how to deal with narcissist, lies, narcissist abuse | 2 Comments

Tips To Make Conversation Easier With A Narcissistic Ex

Posted on July 24, 2018 by janieleeds

If you’re still tied to your former spouse who’s a narcissist, you know how hard it is to have a conversation with them. Because even if we can clearly see that they’re narcissistic, there’s still that piece that remembers the … Continue reading →

Posted in divorce, finding happiness at 50, inspiration, love, women 50 | Tagged all's fair in love and war, be an observer, breaking bad habits, do you want to be right or happy, ex-wife of a narcissist, how to deal with narcissist, mike tyson, thriver | 12 Comments

When Clarity Brings Divinity

Posted on July 12, 2018 by janieleeds

I can’t even begin to tell you how much better I am feeling as I go through this process of realizing how the narcissists in my life have evolved. I don’t blame them for being who they are and I … Continue reading →

Posted in divorce, finding happiness at 50, inspiration, love | Tagged bad behavior, empath, ex-wife of a narcissist, family, how to deal with narcissist, let go of the past, life, NPD, peace, relationships, truth, understanding people | 1 Comment

Stay Out Of Their Relationship

Posted on January 26, 2018 by janieleeds

It’s been an interesting week here, but the experience may be helpful to you if you are divorced with kids who see their dad occasionally. As a divorced parent, I thought that we would co-parent together, but that was not … Continue reading →

Posted in divorce, finding happiness at 50, inspiration, love | Tagged bad behavior, co-parenting, divorce advice, end of marriage, ex-wife of a narcissist, family, how to deal with narcissist, kids and divorce, life, relationship between divorced parents and kids, truth, Wizard of Lies | 4 Comments

Blinded By The Lies

Posted on January 25, 2018 by janieleeds

Tuning into narcissistic behaviors, once your eyes have been opened is a hard truth to handle. Because for the most part, we want to believe people are telling the truth, especially if it’s our loved one. Why would we question … Continue reading →

Posted in divorce, finding happiness at 50, inspiration, love | Tagged bad behavior, deceit, end of marriage, ex-husband, family, how to deal with narcissist, lies, narcissist, relationships, truth, Wizard of Lies, Wizard of Oz | 15 Comments