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Summer Single Parenting

Posted on August 9, 2019 by

I’m tired and ready for summer vacation to be over and for the kids and me to get back to a routine that I can handle.  The older one is already dirtying the nest.  At 21, he’s off and running … Continue reading →

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Narcissists Spin The Story

Posted on April 29, 2019 by

To keep you on your toes, narcissists spin the story of whatever they’re telling you.  Listen closely, because depending upon whom they’re talking with, the story may change.  Outright lies, embellishments of the truth and even small nuances are part … Continue reading →

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Lesson Reminder – Divorced From A Narcissist

Posted on February 2, 2019 by

I had to contact my divorce lawyer and pay him to help me again because my ex-husband intentionally betrayed the divorce agreement.  Time and again, he thinks the rules don’t apply to him.  But they do and if I’m the … Continue reading →

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Life Is Tough These Days

Posted on January 18, 2019 by

There’s some blood moon, wolf moon eclipse coming and it sure feels like the world’s people have become untethered.  Me included.  So much debris floating under the surface, just when I thought things were getting better.  But they’re not getting … Continue reading →

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Kids Of Divorce and The Narcissist Family

Posted on November 30, 2018 by

My college kids are having a tough time navigating their relationship with their dad who is mostly absent.  It doesn’t help that his mommy has stuck her narcissistic snout into their relationship often and as her son’s biggest fan, feels … Continue reading →

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I No Longer Believe You

Posted on July 27, 2018 by

“I’m not upset that you lied to me, I’m upset that from now on I can’t believe you.” ― Friedrich Nietzsche Above is a common quote on the internet, but the real quote is: “Not that you lied to me … Continue reading →

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It’s Not About You With A Narcissist

Posted on July 11, 2018 by

I wasted years – Y E A R S – not getting over the fact that my former husband left me.  I desperately went over our past trying to figure out when it all went wrong.  I shouldered the blame … Continue reading →

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Blinded By The Lies

Posted on January 25, 2018 by

Tuning into narcissistic behaviors, once your eyes have been opened is a hard truth to handle.  Because for the most part, we want to believe people are telling the truth, especially if it’s our loved one.  Why would we question … Continue reading →

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What Are Your New Year’s Plans?

Posted on December 30, 2017 by

Onward and upwards my friends!  I’ve spent the last few years alone on New Year’s Eve as my kids were always with my ex and his family at a family party to which I was excluded.  I have to say, … Continue reading →

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