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I Think I Need A Part-Time Job

The rumblings in my brain won’t cease.  The to-do list swirls with items that I can’t be bothered with checking off because I know they don’t matter today.  Normally, my notebook list is crossed off and I feel good that … Continue reading

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How I Am Breaking The Marriage Patterns After Divorce – Lesson 1 – Stick to the Facts

I don’t know about you, but in my marriage, we had slipped into a pattern and routine of my EX being the boss and me being the subordinate one.  It happened gradually over time as I found it was easier … Continue reading

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A Reminder List For After Your Divorce

There’s so much to do when you are getting a divorce.  Stuff is bound to fall through the cracks because in addition to there being mountains of paperwork to review, bills to pay, life to continue at full speed with … Continue reading

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He’s Told The Kids He’s Seeing Someone

Has this happened to you?  You probably remember that gut wrenching feeling when your kids told you that their Dad told them that he’s seeing someone.  Even though for me, there have been signs along the way (that I thought … Continue reading

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The Finalizing of the Divorce Agreement

Our divorce was finally signed after a last minute frenzy to compromise.  It’s funny how one small topic in a divorce agreement can wreak such havoc and cause so much chaos.  A divorce agreement is the cornerstone of the rules … Continue reading

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Why I Forgave Him

I was watching The Vow which was a movie on tv the other night.  As the daughter yells at her mom for staying with her father after he cheated, the mom simply said, I chose to stay with him for … Continue reading

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How To Find Peace With The Love You Feel For Your EX

To quote Frank Sinatra, I did it my way and friends, you will too.  But to navigate those muddy waters of love after a separation, a divorce or a betrayal is hard to do alone.  I’m here.  I get it … Continue reading

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