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How I Am Breaking The Marriage Patterns After Divorce – Lesson 1 – Stick to the Facts

I don’t know about you, but in my marriage, we had slipped into a pattern and routine of my EX being the boss and me being the subordinate one.  It happened gradually over time as I found it was easier … Continue reading

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Are You A Good Girl By This Definition?

I like Katy Perry’s definition of a good girl because it fits me perfectly.  Would you call yourself a good girl by this definition or do you define good girl differently? I followed the rules all of my life.  I … Continue reading

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Is the Grass Always Greener? Are You Thinking About Getting a Divorce?

Of course we’ve all contemplated if the grass is greener on the other side.  Hopefully before we make life changing decisions, we look at all angles before we hop into making a decision.  Sometimes, decisions are made for us though … Continue reading

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You Can Cut All The Flowers

I love enjoying cut flowers in my home.  I have various plants as well, but there’s something special about spring flowers that raise my spirits.  Do you feel the same way? I stopped having flowers in my home when my … Continue reading

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Divorce Exposed

There’s a willingness in the face of divorce to recount all the bad in the past in order to make sense of the present situation whatever it may be.  There’s a flip side to that exposure which comes from being … Continue reading

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Why Patient and Powerful?

So, let me explain why I chose Patient and Powerful ~ or better yet, why the motto which inspired me from The White Princess serves me well.  I am enduring a long, drawn-out divorce which if you’ve been through one, … Continue reading

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Now Is The Time For Rebirth

Well, it’s early Easter morning and all are asleep in my home.  I’ve already been outside to feel the warm sunshine on my body and to take a quiet walk around the yard.  Looking at the buds pushing through the … Continue reading

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