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It’s Not Our Anniversary Anymore

The other day I realized it would have been our wedding anniversary.  Well, I guess I should call it my unniversary since I am divorced over a year now.  I wonder if my former husband even realized the date.  I … Continue reading

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Wife Swap

Have you ever seen that TV show Wife Swap?   I remember when it first came out and I was married.  It was crazy to me that women volunteered to swap families for a week.  I was fascinated by watching … Continue reading

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All’s Fair In Love?

All’s fair in love and war.  Who said that despicable quote?  Because I don’t think there’s a fairness when it comes to either love nor war.  Maybe I’m misunderstanding the meaning of the quote.  What’s your thought on it? There’s … Continue reading

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How Friendships Change After A Breakup

If you’ve been through a break up or divorce, you know that sometimes friendships go away just like the relationship.  I’ve been on both sides of the situation and it’s never easy.  When a couple breaks up, we tend to … Continue reading

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How About Saying Former Spouse?

How do you refer to the spouse you’re divorced from? I was talking with someone new the other day and he told me that he doesn’t use the word ‘ex’ when referring to his ex-wife.  He says, my former wife.  … Continue reading

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Paris Can Wait

I indulged the other night with Paris Can Wait, a movie with Diane Lane.  Have you seen it?  Here’s the synopsis: Anne (Diane Lane) is at a crossroads in her life. Married to a successful but inattentive movie producer (Alec … Continue reading

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Is This What We Signed Up For?

I have asked myself that question repeatedly over the years.  Did I really sign up for this crazy?  The narcissist relationships that have me bugging out with insomnia?  I’m a fixer by nature and over the years, I repeatedly put … Continue reading

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How To Let Go From Someone Who Knows

I will admit, I agonized over everything when my Ex left.  I tangled myself in thoughts and bereavement of the sudden leaving of my then husband of more than 20 years.  I swung emotionally to extremes – anger and hurt … Continue reading

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Filling The Empty Cavity When He Leaves

Today’s prompt cavity  made me ache to write to you.  Because as ex-spouses or ex-partners, there’s a hole in our hearts after our loved one leaves.  It aches like a cavity and the pain that we feel within takes effort … Continue reading

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