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I Don’t Want To Do This Anymore

When my EX-husband told me it was over, his words were, I don’t want to do this anymore.  Fragile me, took that as I wasn’t enough for him.  I relived that quote over and over as failure.  I wasn’t enough.  … Continue reading

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After The Divorce

I wrote this a week after the divorce and intended to post it, but somehow other posts seemed more important.  But this is really how I feel.  It’s taken me a long time to get to this place of being … Continue reading

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How I Am Breaking The Marriage Patterns After Divorce – Lesson 3 – Deal With Reality

Lesson One – Stick To The Facts Lesson Two – Letting Go Of His Family Obligations Lesson Three – Deal with Reality My EX and I now spar through email.  We don’t talk on the phone and I don’t see … Continue reading

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How I Am Breaking The Marriage Patterns After Divorce – Lesson 1 – Stick to the Facts

I don’t know about you, but in my marriage, we had slipped into a pattern and routine of my EX being the boss and me being the subordinate one.  It happened gradually over time as I found it was easier … Continue reading

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Finding Parts of Myself

It’s a road of discovery, strewn with some rocks, some detours and some debris.  But it’s my path that I’m on and I’m determined to find all the parts of myself to make me whole again.  Being forced to change … Continue reading

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Own Your Story

Owning your story is the bravest thing you’ll ever do.  ~ Brené Brown Yesterday’s post talked about your story and the way you tell it.  I think it’s interesting to note how we tell our stories, what we include, what … Continue reading

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Are You Changing Your Name?

My divorce lawyer asked me if I wanted to change my name back to my maiden name.  When my husband and I first separated, I was practically hell bent on removing his name from me when I thought about my … Continue reading

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