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Does It Matter Now If He Cheated?

Even though I haven’t communicated with the ex in a long while, I had a dream about him.  In the dream, he told the truth and answered many questions about our marriage that were apparently still haunting me enough to … Continue reading

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And Laughed And Laughed…

And God promised men that good and obedient wives would be found in all corners of the world. Then He made the earth round… and laughed and laughed and laughed. – Unknown A friend sent this to me and I … Continue reading

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I Don’t Want To Do This Anymore

When my EX-husband told me it was over, his words were, I don’t want to do this anymore.  Fragile me, took that as I wasn’t enough for him.  I relived that quote over and over as failure.  I wasn’t enough.  … Continue reading

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After The Divorce

I wrote this a week after the divorce and intended to post it, but somehow other posts seemed more important.  But this is really how I feel.  It’s taken me a long time to get to this place of being … Continue reading

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How I Am Breaking The Marriage Patterns After Divorce – Lesson 3 – Deal With Reality

Lesson One – Stick To The Facts Lesson Two – Letting Go Of His Family Obligations Lesson Three – Deal with Reality My EX and I now spar through email.  We don’t talk on the phone and I don’t see … Continue reading

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How I Am Breaking The Marriage Patterns After Divorce – Lesson 1 – Stick to the Facts

I don’t know about you, but in my marriage, we had slipped into a pattern and routine of my EX being the boss and me being the subordinate one.  It happened gradually over time as I found it was easier … Continue reading

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Finding Parts of Myself

It’s a road of discovery, strewn with some rocks, some detours and some debris.  But it’s my path that I’m on and I’m determined to find all the parts of myself to make me whole again.  Being forced to change … Continue reading

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