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Can You Love Narcissists?

Most times when we read about narcissists, it’s a bad thing.  They are portrayed as bad people because of their innate neediness to be better, to be praised, to be in control and all the other traits that I’m sure … Continue reading

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Shedding The Narcissist

When it comes to my brother and my Ex and his family, I’m stumped.  I’m an even keeled person for the most part.  When I say I love you, I mean I love you all the time.  It’s not conditional … Continue reading

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My Heart Is Heavy But Healing

So my kids met the new girlfriend of my ex (their dad) this weekend.  It was hard for me to not tell them that she was coming (I knew from other family members), but as an afterthought, he didn’t tell … Continue reading

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Cutting The Ties That Bind Me

It’s not easy for me to let go.  Let me just say that upfront.  I am the type of person who tries to see the big picture, to give the benefit of the doubt and to try not to take … Continue reading

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What’s Your Plan For The Solar Eclipse?

So if you’re like me, you might have read about the cosmos and how astrologically the solar eclipse on 21 August may affect us emotionally, spiritually and as a whole world.  I won’t bore you with what I’ve read as … Continue reading

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Are You A Good Girl By This Definition?

I like Katy Perry’s definition of a good girl because it fits me perfectly.  Would you call yourself a good girl by this definition or do you define good girl differently? I followed the rules all of my life.  I … Continue reading

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