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How I Am Breaking The Marriage Patterns After Divorce – Lesson 1 – Stick to the Facts

I don’t know about you, but in my marriage, we had slipped into a pattern and routine of my EX being the boss and me being the subordinate one.  It happened gradually over time as I found it was easier … Continue reading

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What Happens When Part Of The Soul Disconnects

I had a reading at a new age metaphysical place.  What was revealed to me was that a small part of my soul had disconnected and was stuck 5 years in the past.  I know it probably sounds incredulous to … Continue reading

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I Want A Boyfriend! Why Don’t I Have One?

Ok, I’m not there yet in my life.  Sure, at some point, I’d like to start dating again, but I need some more me time before I get involved with someone new.  Again, that’s just me, so if you’ve found … Continue reading

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Are You A Good Girl By This Definition?

I like Katy Perry’s definition of a good girl because it fits me perfectly.  Would you call yourself a good girl by this definition or do you define good girl differently? I followed the rules all of my life.  I … Continue reading

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Why I Forgave Him

I was watching The Vow which was a movie on tv the other night.  As the daughter yells at her mom for staying with her father after he cheated, the mom simply said, I chose to stay with him for … Continue reading

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But I Still Love Him

Recently I’ve met with some women who are in the middle of being separated and/or divorced and a handful still lament that they love their STBX (soon-to-be-ex) or EX’s.  I understand, for I still have a piece of my heart … Continue reading

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You Can’t Co-Parent From The Nothing Box

I call it the nothing box.  That’s where my Ex lives most of the time since we’ve been separated and now divorced.  Have you ever heard of the nothing box? Well, I call it the nothing box because he simply … Continue reading

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